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1. I have a problem. I really like this guy, but I don't know if he likes me. I decided I wanted to show him, so I ordered something for Valentine’s Day. I ordered 2 life sized dolls, one of me and one of him (was very hard getting the proportions right), and I am going to put them on puppet strings and have them act out the final scene to Romeo and Juliet. Is that too much? Or is it not enough? Or should I choose a different theatrical piece? Sincerely, Impulsive
Austin’s response:
First off, I am one to always promote a gift from the heart. But what you have planned is way too much. You might not think so, but he might feel bad that you got him something so crazy like that. That might bring up problems with how he feels, he could be embarrassed or even creeped out. You could be lucky and maybe he just loves the whole thing, but there is a very small chance that will happen. So my advice is to find something you are good at, find something that he likes, and run with it!
2. I have a problem. Not with getting girls, I can do that just fine. I am getting TOO MANY. How do I make myself immediately LESS attractive to the ladies? Like repulsive. From: Over-loved
Austin’s response:
Okay, over-loved your problem and it is not as hard as you think. What you have to do is treat the girls that like you as one of your friends and talk to them about your problems and your day. They will start to become good friends with you, but they won’t try to get with you. Girls like their friends as friends, not someone they would date. Do not ignore them because everyone wants something they can’t have, they will just want you more.
3. I am currently in a relationship with a girl at seaholm... sort of, it's not "official" yet, but we've been spending a lot of time together. I like her and she is totally gorgeous, the problem is that she keeps trying to talk to me. It's kind of annoying when I'm with my friends and she comes up to try and start a conversation on things I don't care about, like her feelings. When I ignore her or politely tell her "please go away", she just gets upset! It's as if she expects me to spend my time with her whenever she wants it. How can I get her to stop trying to talk to me in school without breaking off this relationship? I still want to be with her because she is good looking and my friends think I'm cool because I'm with her. You can call me Germanic.
Austin’s response:
Well, Germanic she just wants you to talk to her and not ignore her. Relationships are a two way road, she has her wants and you have yours. I think the two of you should sit down and talk because you have hit a road block in the relationship. Make sure you hear her wants and she hears your wants and make an equal level. I would say there is nothing bad about sitting down and talking in every relationship. You never know exactly what the other is thinking in a relationship until you tell each other.
